Good kissers make an unshakable impression. If you can kiss with much sensuality and confidence that the only option for your kiss victim is to beg for more, you can expect the other party to have opinions of you higher than the roof above your head. It’s bonus points for physical attraction, and it gets you very far – often into the bedroom.
Of course, I am in no position to give you a crash course on how to kiss well, or rate the standard of your smooch on the kissing scale. It is a learned etiquette, a language of a lover, and you may have already developed a signature style of your own. Good kissers have a range of techniques and types of kisses for every occasion at their disposal.
A lot of (first) kisses happened in clubs, for some reason, while you’re giddy with groovy music pumping in your ears and alcohol pumping in your blood. Everyone looks cuter, don’t they, in that supernatural nightlight swirling around you. But that doesn’t mean abandoning all rationality and diving straight into the lusty kill hoping it might get you a sneak to the toilet for a naughty quickie, especially if it’s a first kiss. Regardless of the location, take note of a little helpful advice!
1. Check your breath.
Bad breath is a major turnoff. Be mint-ready, and eat something light the meal before the special moment, if you meant it to be.
2. Test the waters.
You’ll need to feel the other party out, and finding the right moment. You don’t want a forced kiss and a hell lot of embarrassment. If you have trouble reading signs, make a move on him or her by getting closer and check the reaction. Make shifting glances from the lips and eyes. Response should be positive before you move on, if he/she backs out, you do that too, no matter how much you want it. Save some dignity for yourself.
3. Start slow.
And that does not involve your lips yet. Body language is important prior to that moment when lips touch. Reach to touch his/her arms, or the waist, or the small of the back. When both of your lips meet, don’t dive the tongue in just yet. There shouldn’t be too much groping wetness.
4. Variety, please!
Don’t stick to one boring form of kissing! Add surprises, and not too much tongue. Don’t engulf your kisser in your mouth either. You can move from short, soft kisses to longer, deeper and more intense ones. Change the angle of your head, and remember to breathe.
5. Kissing doesn’t just happen on the lips.
Body parts included. Go for small pecks and nibbles on the neck, the earlobes when the heat is turning up.
After your deed, come back and tell us about your steamy first kiss!
